WARNING THIS IS NOT A EMO POST!!
As much as the title look emo ah but it's not actually come to think of it my post is a damn good place to be looking for philo ideas ahahah.
Sometime on this journey, you may start to feel lonely. Maybe it's because you don't hang around friends anymore? Perhaps it's because you don't have friends that you could hang out with anymore.
I would say no, you are not alone.
Perhaps there are some other things that you wish to do? Some other place you need to be? Some other dreams you need to chase....
Back in the days(for me anyway), you would seek companionship before you were to go somewhere or do something. Things usually turn out that the friend(s) did not wish to do that or go the place you wanted and you just give it up without actually thinking much about it.
Don't get me wrong, it is perfectly fine to have had those thoughts. Maybe you just haven't saw something or somewhere you really wanted to have or to be.
So now your phone doesn't ring as much anymore, your Facebook looks kinda boring nothing's new. Emails? I personally don't like emails but those who communicate through emails your mail box get filled with junk or work.
This perhaps is not a sign that you alone and have no friends anymore. Maybe.
JUST maybe!
You are now able to stand on your own. Go where you want to do, go where you want to go.
But of course everyone would love to have someone by their side. Then we can now look at marriage. hahah! No i'm not going to talk about marriage.
I had this bus theory in one my old post.
It's something like you go on this journey of life, you are taking buses with many many other people doing the same.
Buses would mean the new environments that come along your way like a new school or a new working place.
The people we meet in real life(RL) are the passengers of the buses and so are you.
You meet some people who you like to hang out with on one bus. Then at the end stop of that bus, you decide... "hey where you all going huh? Oh there ah ok lo go together lo."
Chances are that's how most people will think when they are still young and stuff. Without a goal in life, people usually follow the one that SEEMS to know where he/she is heading.
So the few of you take another bus together but what happens to the other passenger in the previous bus? Those are the friends that we lose contact from. Those will be the friends that you will only see when furnels for your generation begins.
Then this would continue, hopping from bus to bus untill, for some, one day finds out where he/she want to be. Often, then the bus would be full of strangers.
